MENTORING
What is mentoring and how our cooperation would look like
Mentor is a person who helps you to be the better version of yourself through leadership. He or she can give you the sense of being on a path, setting up challenges for you, supporting you to achieve your goals and celebrating your victories. Apart from friends or family a mentor has no emotional attachment to you. They want you to succeed but it matters not to them if you move far away or decide to quit what you feel doesn’t suit you anymore and start anew. It doesn’t cause an emotional response in them and they will not try to affect your decisions based on their personal wants and desires. Their ultimate goal is to support you in the path you think is right for you (unless it is incompatible with their moral values and in that case they can decide to cease the cooperation).
Throughout my life I’ve had three main mentors. One was my high school teacher who was the supervisor of my scientific paper I competed with in a national student competition. His points of view and our discussions shaped the person I am now and I still have a deep respect for him. Next one is a woman I met when I was fifteen and cooperate with to this day. I came to her because I wanted to become a better person. Not to be controlled by my negative emotions. We still talk 3 - 4 times a year and she supports me to continue on my chosen path. Last mentor I work with is helping me align my thoughts on my own personal philosophy. We focus less on my own struggles and goals and more on understanding the world and shaping my beliefs.
This is how our work together would look like:
1. First we would find your goal (or goals). Together we can figure it out. It might be anything from mastering your passion or interest, knowing yourself better, financial stability, finding desired partner, getting a physical appearance you want or anything that you know would make you happier. My job is to help you stay on the path and keep the right mindset while you are bettering your skills through your work.
2. We would go through the ways of internalising the success mindset and you would get tools to move you forward including our productivity plans and audio-visions to help you on the way.
3. We would figure out what is holding you back and how can you advance forward until you reach your desired goal.
BONUS - Everytime you get stuck you have your mentor that knows your path to be there for you and nudge you ahead.
Price
For 1 hour client session (aka clientelle) the price is $100.
During the initial clientelle we will get to know each other a bit and will make a decision if we want to cooperate. If you feel like you didn’t get the service you expected and the session didn’t bring any value to you, you will get your money back and we can agree not to continue our cooperation.
As I want this service to be affordable to anyone who wants a change and wants to succeed I will repeatedly run events on social media for a chance to win a 70% discount on a clientelle price.
About me and my experiences
I've always been a complex personality. Since I was a kid I had my dream job in mind, I had spent my teenage years collecting additional points to get to university and I become a self-employed trainer at the age of 15. After that I studied and finished two universities simultaneously in Europe while taking short term volunteer jobs in south and north America. I worked for 5 years for a company until I decided to be master of my own time and started a few business projects on my own.
I keep studying and learning new things and getting inspired by different people and their ideas like Thais Gibson - Personal Development School, Matt Boggs - Brave Thinking Institute, Matthew Hussay - Love Life Club, Dale Carnegie, Elisabeth Haich, Esther Perrel, Barbara Brennan or Will Bowen - Complaint Free World, to name a few.
I believe success mindset is not something some people simply have. It's a skill you acquire and maintain in working condition. Life is challenging but with the right mindset it gets easier and it'll turn out to be fun to stretch your limits and become a better version of yourself.
Bellow is the list of seven of my main life experiences and what I have learnt from them. If you wish to understand my beliefs and my mindset better, follow Guided Daydream on social media.
- Started teaching people at the age of 15, continued for 12 years - it taught me that confidence and personal growth is the main component of most areas of learning
- Moved to a different continent by myself and acquired visa, PR and citizenship - I have learned that you can choose either of the ways - work hard and achieve stuff by yourself or cooperate with people that support you and want to help you thrive
- Finished two master's degrees (medical and natural sciences fields), last semester by flying between continents multiple times - I was told that if I interrupt my studies and move away I will never finish what I've started and the time put into it will be wasted. It might have took longer but I proved to myself everything is possible if you put your mind into it!
- I have learned a lot about myself, my strenghts and weaknesses, beliefs, communication and human behaviour in 11 years long relationship, then dating and partner choice and realised one of the most important things is the willingness to look at the situation through the other person's eyes, while staying true to yourself.
- After giving all my time and energy to a job for 5 years I experienced what a burnout is, learned how to stop people pleasing, how to set boundaries and take care of myself.
- I have experienced many different life and financial situations from happy worry-less childhood, to living in harsh conditions and worrying about having enough money for food and rent to having my own place and supporting myself. After this experience I appreciate the value of things, try to save food and resources to keep the planet sustainable.
- I made a step out of my comfort zone, quit my job and invested all my time, money and hopes into living a life I want, supporting myself financially through activity I enjoy to have time to do stuff that bring my life a sense of higher purpose - main lesson: always choose love over fear!
